enim plantavit vineam, et non bibit vinum ex ea? (I Cor. IX, 7.) Hoc semper et in omnibus attendentes, summopere curate, charissimi, ne in hoc secreto conjugio vestro vir vel otiosus torpeat, nec in alieno laboret, vel nisi legitimae uxori quidquam acquirat, nec uxor in sibi subditis inconsulto viro vel modicum ordinet, quatenus si ordinem servare studetis, intus in proprio domicilio prius servetis : et sit omnis exercitatio corporalis, quae ad modicum valet, subdita piae affectioni, omnis affectio et voluntas rationi : mens vero rationalis Dei verbo, ut ab ejus magisterio nunquam discedat, sicut ibi audierit et viderit, sic inferius omnia judicet, temperet, ordinet. Discat ibi quod doceat, dicens : mea doctrina non est mea, sed ejus cui subjecta sum. Illi semper indefessa dilectione adhaereat, in illum prospicere delectet, dicens : Mihi adhaerere Deo bonum est (Psal. LXXII) : nam qui adhaeret Deo, unus spiritus est (I Cor. VI, 17). Si enim qui adhaeret carni illa evirata enervique voluptate, ubi spiritus ipse ferme totus caro efficitur, una fit caro, ut jam non sint duo, sed una caro, qui carnaliter adhaerent : nonne merito qui masculo corde et mente virili, non minori quadam, sed castiore, sed puriore dilectione, se totum transfundens in Deum, de se sibi nihil retinens, nihil reservans, adhaeret illi, exutus se, unus spiritus cum illo efficitur? An efficacior illa pestis ad nocendum, ad captivandum, ad deglutiendum, ad permutandum : quam ista virtus ad auxiliandum, ad liberandum, ad conglutinandum, ad immutandum? Ait omnipotens sermo, cui subest posse, cum velit : imo cujus idem posse et velle : Volo, Pater, ut, sicut ego et tu unum sumus, ita et isti sint unum nobiscum (Joan. XVII). O voluntas pia, voluntas Dei Deo digna, voluntas plena gratia, et charitate, voluntas plena veritate, quia veritatis! Ut, sicut ego et tu unum sumus, ita et isti sint unum nobiscum. Ecce quo provehitur servus, quo reconciliatur inimicus, ut fiat de inimico servus, de servo amicus, de amico filius, de filio haeres, de haerede unus, imo unum etiam cum ipsa haereditate, ut sicut non poterit seipso privari, ita nec haereditate, quae Deus est ipse : et ideo pars mea Deus, inquit, in aeternum. Ecce, ut sunt unum nobiscum. O unum unum! o unum unite unum! o unum prorsus necessarium! unum propter quod omnia mundi hujus dulcia relinquenda, amara sustinenda, inhonesta fugienda, et honesta amplectenda. Unum ad quod multipliciter curritur, in quo uniformiter statur, pausatur, delectatur. O si detur audacia verbis! o si conferre liceat turpia decoris, inhonesta castis, supremum spiritus carnis extremo! nunquam melius, nunquam proprius, nunquam expressius, haec unio sancta, spiritualis, divina, in his tenebris monstratur, quam a simili, per ejus contrarium. Nihil enim veritate dissimilius, nihil comparatione similius. Sicut enim in carnalis commistionis articulo, ita spiritus totus in carnem transit, eviratus, sui impos, suorum immemor,
plants a vineyard and does not drink wine from it? (1 Cor. 9:7.) Attending to this always and in all things, take the greatest care, dearly beloved, that in this secret marriage of yours the husband neither grow torpid in idleness, nor labour in another's field, nor gain anything except for his lawful wife; and that the wife order nothing, however small, among those subject to her without consulting her husband; so that, if you are eager to keep order, you keep it first within, in your own dwelling: and let all bodily exercise, which is profitable for little, be subject to devout affection; all affection and will to reason; and the rational mind to the Word of God, so that it never departs from His teaching, but as it has heard and seen there, so it judges, tempers and orders all things below. Let it learn there what it is to teach, saying: My doctrine is not mine, but His to whom I am subject. Let it cleave to Him always with unwearied love, let it delight to look towards Him, saying: It is good for me to cleave to God (Ps. 72:28): for he who cleaves to God is one spirit (1 Cor. 6:17). For if he who cleaves to the flesh in that unmanned and enervating pleasure, where the spirit itself becomes almost wholly flesh, becomes one flesh, so that those who cleave together carnally are no longer two but one flesh: is it not right that he who with a manly heart and a virile mind, with a love not less but more chaste and more pure, pouring his whole self into God, keeping nothing of himself for himself, reserving nothing, cleaves to Him, stripped of himself, should become one spirit with Him? Or is that plague more effective to harm, to take captive, to swallow up, to change, than this power to help, to set free, to glue together, to transform? The almighty Word, to whom power is at hand whenever He wills, nay whose power and will are the same, says: Father, I will that, as I and Thou are one, so these too may be one with Us (John 17:21–24). O devout will, will of God worthy of God, will full of grace and charity, will full of truth, because it is the Truth's! That, as I and Thou are one, so these too may be one with Us. See to what the servant is advanced, to what the enemy is reconciled: so that from an enemy he becomes a servant, from a servant a friend, from a friend a son, from a son an heir, from an heir one, nay one thing even with the inheritance itself; so that, as he cannot be deprived of himself, so neither of the inheritance, which is God Himself: and therefore, he says, God is my portion for ever. See, that they are one with Us. O One, one! O One, unitedly one! O one thing wholly necessary! The one thing for whose sake all the sweet things of this world are to be left, the bitter endured, the shameful fled, and the honourable embraced. The one thing to which one runs in many ways, in which one stands, rests and delights in one way. O, if boldness be granted to words! O, if it be allowed to compare base things with fair, shameful with chaste, the highest of the spirit with the lowest of the flesh! never better, never more properly, never more expressly is this holy, spiritual, divine union shown in this darkness than by a likeness through its contrary. For nothing is more unlike the truth, nothing more like it by comparison. For just as in the moment of carnal union the whole spirit passes into the flesh, unmanned, not master of itself, unmindful of its own,