et amicum sponsi cum veste nuptiali invitatum. Benedictum Stephanum attendite, quomodo increpat Judaeos, tanquam saevus, tanquam iratus: Dura cervice, et non circumcisi corde et auribus, vos restitistis Spiritui sancto. Quem Prophetarum non occiderunt patres vestri? Audisti quomodo lingua saeviat. Adhuc tu paratus es dicere in quemlibet, atque utinam in eum dicas, qui Deum offenderit, non qui te. Offendit Deum et non increpas; offendit te, clamas: ubi est vestis illa nuptialis? Audistis ergo quomodo saevierit Stephanus: audite quomodo dilexerit. Offendit eos quos increpabat, lapidatus est ab eis. Et cum undique furentium manibus, et lapidum ictibus premeretur et tunderetur, prius ait: Domine Jesu Christe, accipe spiritum meum. Deinde posteaquam pro se stans oravit, pro illis qui lapidabant eum, genu fixit, et dixit: Domine, ne statuas eis hoc delictum: ego moriar in carne, non illi in corde. Et hoc dicto obdormivit (Act. VII, 51-59). Post haec verba nihil addidit: dixit, et abiit; novissima ejus oratio pro inimicis fuit. Discite habere vestem nuptialem. Ita et tu fige genua, et collide frontem in terra, et accessurus ad mensam Domini, ad convivium sanctarum Scripturarum, noli dicere, Si moriatur inimicus: Domine, si quid a te merui, occide inimicum meum. Quod si forte dicis, non times ne tibi respondeat: Si occidere vellem inimicum tuum, te prius occiderem? An gloriaris, quia modo invitatus venisti? Cogita, paululum ante quid fuisti. Nonne me blasphemasti? nonne me irrisisti? nonne nomen meum de terra delere voluisti? sed plaudis tibi, quia invitatus venisti. Si te occidissem inimicum, quem facerem amicum? Quid male orando doces me, quod non feci in te? Imo ego, dicit tibi Deus, doceam te, ut imiteris me. In cruce pendens dixi, Ignosce illis, quia nesciunt quid faciunt. Docui hoc militem meum. Esto tiro meus contra diabolum. Aliter invicte nullo modo pugnabis, nisi pro tuis inimicis oraveris. Dic plane, dic etiam hoc, dic ut inimicum tuum persequaris: sed scienter dic; distingue quod dicis. Ecce homo est inimicus tuus: responde mihi, quid in illo inimicetur tibi; numquid hoc quod homo est, inimicatur tibi? Non. Sed quid? Quod malus est. Quod homo est, quod ego feci, non tibi inimicatur. Dicit tibi: Ego hominem feci non malum: factus est malus per inobedientiam, qui potius zabulo obedivit, quam Deo. Quod ipse fecit, hoc tibi inimicatur: unde malus, tibi inimicus est; non unde homo est. Audio enim hominem, et malum: unum nomen est naturae, alterum culpae: sano culpam, et servo naturam. Hoc tibi dicit Deus tuus: Et ecce vindico te, occido inimicum tuum; de illo tollo quod malus est, servo quod homo est: numquid si fecero illum hominem bonum, non occidi inimicum tuum, et feci amicum tuum? Sic roga quod rogas, ut non homines pereant, sed ipsae inimicitiae pereant. Si autem hoc oras, ut homo moriatur; malus oras contra malum: et cum dicis, Occide malum; respondet tibi, Quem vestrum.
also the bridegroom's friend invited with the wedding garment. Consider the blessed Stephen, how he rebukes the Jews, as if fierce, as if angry: Stiff of neck, and uncircumcised in heart and ears, you have resisted the Holy Spirit. Which of the Prophets did your fathers not kill? You have heard how his tongue rages. You are still ready to speak against anyone at all, and would that you spoke against him who has offended God, not him who has offended you. He offends God, and you do not rebuke; he offends you, and you shout: where is that wedding garment? You have heard, then, how Stephen raged: hear how he loved. He offended those whom he rebuked, and he was stoned by them. And when on every side he was pressed and pounded by the hands of raging men and the blows of stones, first he said: Lord Jesus Christ, receive my spirit. Then, after he had prayed standing for himself, for those who were stoning him he knelt down and said: Lord, do not set this offence against them: let me die in the flesh, not they in the heart. And having said this he fell asleep (Acts 7:51–59). After these words he added nothing: he spoke, and departed; his last prayer was for his enemies. Learn to have the wedding garment. So you too, bend your knees and strike your forehead on the ground, and as you are about to approach the table of the Lord, the banquet of the holy Scriptures, do not say, If only my enemy would die: Lord, if I have deserved anything of Thee, kill my enemy. But if perhaps you do say this, do you not fear lest He answer you: If I wished to kill your enemy, would I not have killed you first? Or do you boast because you have only now come when invited? Think what you were a little while ago. Did you not blaspheme Me? Did you not mock Me? Did you not wish to blot out My name from the earth? Yet you applaud yourself because you came when invited. If I had killed you as an enemy, whom would I have made a friend? Why, by praying badly, do you teach Me what I did not do in your case? Rather let Me, God says to you, teach you, so that you may imitate Me. Hanging on the cross I said, Forgive them, for they do not know what they do. I taught this to My soldier. Be My recruit against the devil. In no other way will you fight unconquered, unless you pray for your enemies. Say it plainly, say this too, say that you would pursue your enemy: but say it knowingly; distinguish what you are saying. Look, a man is your enemy: answer me, what in him is hostile to you; is it this, that he is a man, that is hostile to you? No. But what? That he is evil. That he is a man, that which I made, is not hostile to you. He says to you: I made man, not evil: he became evil through disobedience, he who obeyed the devil rather than God. What he himself made, this is hostile to you: from that by which he is evil, he is your enemy; not from that by which he is a man. For I hear "man" and "evil": the one is the name of nature, the other of fault: I heal the fault, and I preserve the nature. This your God says to you: And see, I avenge you, I kill your enemy; I take from him that which is evil, I preserve that which is man: if I make him a good man, have I not killed your enemy and made him your friend? So ask what you ask, that not men may perish, but the enmities themselves may perish. But if you pray this, that the man may die, you, an evil man, pray against an evil man: and when you say, Kill the evil man, He answers you, Which of you?